Child dating man
It’s not a relationship that can be disputed unless the mother crosses the line, which is also a possibility.The two loved each other once and have a child to show for it, so there is always a chance that they will want to revisit their love again.Bad blood is usually inherited by the new woman in that man’s life, and I’m not dealing with it.Plus, it would be difficult to witness a woman hurting or upsetting your man over his child.
We love a man who’s close with his family, but if he has a bizarre, childish relationship with his mother, know that you likely won’t be the leading lady in his life, says psychologist Dr. “Along similar lines, if he cancels dinner and other plans with you to spend time with his family, borrows money from his parents without paying them back, and still lets his mother influence—or make—all his decisions, those are red flags,” he says.
I dated a man with a child once and when his son’s mother called at midnight and I asked why, he answered with the response “That’s my son’s mother,” as if that was supposed to make it justifiable.
I wanted to say something else but there was no point because she has the right to call whenever when it’s about their child.
Unless they’re wondering if they can have Oreos for dinner, children don’t think about their futures much.
So if the guy you’re dating can’t make plans—for tomorrow or two years from now—he’s living in the here and now. “[They] can’t think too far ahead because they are incapable of seeing their future selves in a clear light,” she notes.
Even if they are rude to you, you have to empathize with them and understand that adjusting to their father being with another woman is not easy for them.