Gods plan for dating
This does not mean that Christians can’t have non-Christians as friends, but friendship is not a bond for life as marriage is.It means God wants Christians to marry other Christians.Christians often feel that couples get divorced because they have married the wrong person. the Lord’s will), find a prudent one (one with discernment and self-control). This is just one attribute of a wife or husband that will be a blessing from the Lord.This verse gives the focus God has revealed in the Scriptures.
They should not have intimate fellowship with those that have not been declared righteous and are still in spiritual darkness.
This is an important commitment that you must make as a Christian to see God’s blessing in your life in this area. I have heard Christians say, “I am only dating an unbeliever, I won’t marry him/her.” The Christian who does this is playing with emotional fire.
This is a boundary that you must draw when it comes to whom you allow yourself to “fall for” or even date. What happens if you date an unbeliever and develop the desire and romantic passion to marry him or her, now what are you going to do?
The first priority is that he or she is a Christian.
2 Cor.-16 says, “Do not be bound together with unbelievers.
Your beliefs and values are established upon the Word of God, an unbeliever’s is not. If you are going to be wise in following this, you also need to realize that it is emotionally dangerous to even date an unbeliever.