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*Thanks for the A2A lol and I’m finally answering my best friend’s question*Dating is something that’s prevalent throughout the West,we see it in movies, songs related to it, and sometimes it occurs that we too want to go out on a date with someone and just ‘try’ it, experience the magic or whatever aura of romance.
We make dares in which we tell people to ask someone out on a date but as Muslims are we aware of what we’re going to get into ?
If it is because of previous acquaintance, being related or because of hearing about that person, and one cannot ward it off, then there is nothing wrong with that love, so long as one adheres to the sacred limits set by Allaah. But contact between the two who admire one another in ways that are not Islamically acceptable is the problem, which leads to disastrous consequences.
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If love develops for a reason that is not haraam, a person cannot be blamed for that, such as one who loves his wife or his slave woman, then he leaves her but that love remains and does not leave him. The same applies if he glances accidentally then looks away, but love may settle in his heart without him wanting it to. In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her.
Why do you fein to go through all these meetings as if you actually love that person, and you’re not even considering being in a proper relationship with him/her. I say it’s Allah that brought you a test like He does to everyone and so you should deal with it.‘There’s no where in the Quran where it says ‘dating is haram’”Oooooh very clever indeed.
I will tell you the exact place where the Quran says it is and this will form the basis to why dating is not allowed: This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them.
I do not remember that he called me more than once.
Usually, we love for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah.Did not our Prophet(saw) tell us that: And do you want this to happen?No matter how good or pure something may seem to you which is actually bad, will always be haram and did not Allah warn us in the Quran about the devil who has made something haram seem fair and halal to us ???I love him for Allah’s sake and sure he loves me as well.The problem is that I started receiving proposals, about 8 so far. First of all I ask Allaah to guide you and grant you happiness, and I ask Him to increase the numbers of girls like you who are keen to maintain chastity and purity and adhere to the sacred limits of Allaah in their affairs, among the most important of which are emotional relationships that many people take lightly, so they overstep the mark and transgress the sacred limits of Allaah, and Allaah tests them with problems that we read about and hear of, in which there is a lesson for every Muslim and for every wise person.
I fell in love, no dates, no meetings involved, pure love to a pure religious person.