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Whether through choice of school programs and extracurricular activities in college (I was a public relations major and I was in a sorority, both of which required a certain level of communications skills), or fields of work post-graduation (I work in nonprofits which tend to not only attract a wide variety of employees, but also a very diverse clientele), I’ve mostly always been around people who are pretty decent at holding a conversation. Trying to talk to men on dating apps is so horrifically painful.I didn’t know it was possible for people to be so horrendous at conversation.Be happy you got a unique opener and try to send them something unique in response, or at least ask them something about their profile.I stole this screenshot from a friend: I get that confidence can be attractive.And to be fair, my male friends say women are just as bad, if not worse, and I don’t doubt that for a second.But, I date men, so my experience is only with men; however, I think a lot of what I am saying can be applied to any gender.
If someone reaches out, and you are interested in talking to them, talk to them!
I never realized how bad people are at conversation until I started using dating apps.
I have always considered myself pretty decent at conversation — I am sure there are some people who find me awkward, or just aren’t a fan of mine for whatever reason.
You've probably been there — staring at your blank laptop or phone screen, wondering what to write to someone online or on a dating app. Hinge, the dating app that connects you to matches via Facebook (your friends and friends of friends), wondered the same thing.“Everyday, the Hinge team is asked if we know the secret to starting a great conversation that will actually lead somewhere. Since it’s our mission to help users move beyond the swipe, to connect over something interesting and to ultimately meet up — we decided to find out,” Karen Fein, Hinge’s VP of Marketing, said in the press release announcing the results. Their copywriters and data analysts wrote up over 100 original openers (which varied in subject matter, structure, and length).
” or some other generic line that probably gets copied and pasted to dozens of people at once. Hinge came out with results from having asked users, 8 million impressions' worth through in-app testing over one month, which opening lines they'd use.
I’m not going to spam you with interview-style questions just because you can’t even give me a starting point.